J's mom is bat shit INSANE! He went home for lunch today to relax and load a game on his computer to play when he gets home tonight and she started bitching at him.
He said they are tired of dishes in the sink and pop cans in the living room, and why is there a kitchen tablein the living room, we don't eat in there and all kinds of other BS. He was livid. He told her "oh god forbid pop cans in the living room when the dogs shit everywhere thats ok. Dishes in the sink? really.?
I work all day, I get up at 530 in the mornign and I go to work. When I get home at 430 i wash dishes, clean stuff and cook dinner. I clean up after cooking and I wash dishes (I will occasionally leave dishes in the sink for the next day so what?) I am not even getting to rest until after 730 or 8 at night. FUCK THEM.
Thast house is disgusting, dirt and dust and nicotine everywhere and she is going to bitch at me for a few pop cans form the night before and the dishes....by the way the dishes are 1 pan that i left to soak, a handful of silverwear and a coffee cup. Oh god the dishes are going to take over....maybe when they fix the dishwasher it will be easier and I will do them more. Oh wait I am the ONLY PERSON who does dishes!
Justin told her she needs to shut up since she sits in her bed all day everyday what the hell does she know about anything in the house. She actually told him she never ever left dirty dishes in the sink after she cooked...and he said when did you ever cook mom? when? oh and you haven't worked 1 single day since I was 10 years old so you cant say anything.
I wonder where she gets off being such a bitch about everything, she does NOTHING and she likes it. I knew moving in here was a bad terrible bad idea but i supported JJ because that what you do. We discussed it and he just wanted to help them out while she was sick and dying and he wanted to be the good son. Now I think he is sorry about it.
Now I am afraid to unpack because we are just gonna move again....fml.
Tuesday, January 11, 2011
Monday, January 10, 2011
YAY
Well last week my always a disappointment negative was actually positive!!! Can you beleive it!? I am still in shock which i'm sure is partly because I am only about 6 weeks pregnant and haven't had the morning sickness from hell.....yet.
We told the kiddo and the parents and the friends. I want to tell everyone but its still early and I am anxious about it seeing as the last time things did not go well. Maybe after we see the OB and are about 12 weeks we will tell. Man thats 6 weeks from now....seems far away but we all know how quickly time flies. I figure I can tell ppl at work in March.
We are mostly moved into the house now. I now understand why things have gotten so bad there and why his mom had gotten so sick before she was hospitalized. Jim does what ever she wants because (and I quote) "She just gets all upset when she doesn't get her way, she starts throwing a fit and she makes everyone around miserable...its just not worth it." DAMN.
There are so so many examples of this behavour but i don't want to get into it. I am amazed that Justin knows this is how she is and he is in shock at how bad it is.
I have been having nightmares about the dogs biting my baby. It usually starts with me finding his mom with my baby and the dogs around and barking and then biting off the babies toes (I am sure this is because of a news story I saw a few months ago about the family dog eating the baby's toes. the parents were meth heads and the dogs were starving). Then me killing the dogs with my bare hands, her freaking out because How dare I hurt her babies and then me hitting her too. Sometimes the dogs just bite AT the baby and dont make contact and I still run in and beat a dog down. I swear to God and all that is holy and breathing in this world, that stupid freaking dog will die if it so much as looks sideways at my baby. I wouldn't be so freaked out about it except that both jim and dianna have encouraged the dog's horrible behavior (We had Jason over last night and that bitch bit him too). they both say stuff like "good girl...get him girl get him" I HATE that.
I overheard Jim talking to his Son (who lives in OKC and has not been around in YEARS) he was saying that she is getting better and is even standing by herself for 30 seconds at a time :O. He said that he hoped by the end of the summer to be out of the house. WOW that would be awesome. Justin thinks his mom will say no and that we will be the ones leaving the house by the end of the summer. either way I don't think this living in the same house thing is gonna work the way they think it will. I am very apprehensive about it.
Dianna keeps saying she is gonna spoil my baby and give him what ever he wants and that when we are disciplining him she will rescue him because her grandchild does no wrong. I had to leave the room to keep from saying "oh the hell you will. I will hurt you first." I mean it though THE HELL SHE WILL.
To be honest I think she likes all the attention and all the fuss around her and she likes being waited on hand and foot and she wants nothing to do with getting better. I also think she is talking about getting better to go to the casino just so she can smoke. There will be NO smoking in that house as long as i live there I dont care who she is.
Oh I am feeling fierce this afternoon. Its probably because I need a nap and I have to fix dinner when I get home and food is not great right now. :)
We told the kiddo and the parents and the friends. I want to tell everyone but its still early and I am anxious about it seeing as the last time things did not go well. Maybe after we see the OB and are about 12 weeks we will tell. Man thats 6 weeks from now....seems far away but we all know how quickly time flies. I figure I can tell ppl at work in March.
We are mostly moved into the house now. I now understand why things have gotten so bad there and why his mom had gotten so sick before she was hospitalized. Jim does what ever she wants because (and I quote) "She just gets all upset when she doesn't get her way, she starts throwing a fit and she makes everyone around miserable...its just not worth it." DAMN.
There are so so many examples of this behavour but i don't want to get into it. I am amazed that Justin knows this is how she is and he is in shock at how bad it is.
I have been having nightmares about the dogs biting my baby. It usually starts with me finding his mom with my baby and the dogs around and barking and then biting off the babies toes (I am sure this is because of a news story I saw a few months ago about the family dog eating the baby's toes. the parents were meth heads and the dogs were starving). Then me killing the dogs with my bare hands, her freaking out because How dare I hurt her babies and then me hitting her too. Sometimes the dogs just bite AT the baby and dont make contact and I still run in and beat a dog down. I swear to God and all that is holy and breathing in this world, that stupid freaking dog will die if it so much as looks sideways at my baby. I wouldn't be so freaked out about it except that both jim and dianna have encouraged the dog's horrible behavior (We had Jason over last night and that bitch bit him too). they both say stuff like "good girl...get him girl get him" I HATE that.
I overheard Jim talking to his Son (who lives in OKC and has not been around in YEARS) he was saying that she is getting better and is even standing by herself for 30 seconds at a time :O. He said that he hoped by the end of the summer to be out of the house. WOW that would be awesome. Justin thinks his mom will say no and that we will be the ones leaving the house by the end of the summer. either way I don't think this living in the same house thing is gonna work the way they think it will. I am very apprehensive about it.
Dianna keeps saying she is gonna spoil my baby and give him what ever he wants and that when we are disciplining him she will rescue him because her grandchild does no wrong. I had to leave the room to keep from saying "oh the hell you will. I will hurt you first." I mean it though THE HELL SHE WILL.
To be honest I think she likes all the attention and all the fuss around her and she likes being waited on hand and foot and she wants nothing to do with getting better. I also think she is talking about getting better to go to the casino just so she can smoke. There will be NO smoking in that house as long as i live there I dont care who she is.
Oh I am feeling fierce this afternoon. Its probably because I need a nap and I have to fix dinner when I get home and food is not great right now. :)
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